2012年2月26日星期日

The second child was born

Male friend, one day told me that he finally found after a divorce, the original toilet is often scrub. Turned out to take burberry bags care of two children, and even had to spend so much effort. But also to loss of freedom! I asked him: "Your exwife now had you"

He said: "She left me to marry a foreigner, have been very happy." I then asked: "She did not come back to read the children" He said calmly: "No."

"She does not love a child Students!" I did not understand. Friend began drinking wine, and I could go on all sorts of his exwife. The wife is a good woman, although premarital playing, but after marriage, a change the past, live the very home life.

First child was born after his regular morning to evening, said to be for business socializing. His wife appreciate the hard work of the men work outside the home, no complaints. The second child was born, he is often late, or even an overnight. His wifes hope he can more time to accompany her to accompany the child, and he is always in order to cause as an excuse to still go its own way. Motherinlaw is a conservative woman of ancient thought, her mother always considered various of his son, are his wife do a bad reason, so his wifes attitude is very cold. Eight years of marriage, the wife has finally issued an ultimatum to him. The wife said to him: "married for eight years, you pay for the house what What have I done" Drunk, he said: "Every day I hard to make money for you, hard to make a living, www.fashiontoy.com these are not enough" The wife said: "Do you think this is enough a woman just so" he was dissatisfied, said: "Otherwise you have to let you worry about food and clothing, living at ease, every day, stay at home want to do what to do few women better off than you "distressed wife said:" all these years of marriage, you do not see my pay do not see my suffering, you do not know why you children suddenly grew sensible, all as is so natural. "his dissatisfaction, said:" I did not pay did not take care of you who give you spending money children grow up does not depend on my hard earn money raising you! "

The wife indifferently silent, and she knew that this moment of the awakening. Finally, she filed for divorce, unconditional divorce, not to have children is not money, just want to leave this waste of the man of her life, her unhappy man.

The story here, I have this male friend head down, did not speak. I think he drank too much Patted him on the back ...

Did you know After the divorce, Ive always wanted children and to find instead of his mothers. However, I like the kids do not like it. "I asked him:" is not the child at first glance do not like, you do not "He nodded ...

He began talking to herself, "I now know, the original children will not grow up, my mother, in fact, it is incomprehensible; the original family is so heavy, the original with two children simply where Qu Bude the original toilet is so clean there is a reason, "he began to cry ... I am lost in thought. I know that some men never learn not to love a woman, some men need women, just because they do not have a nanny, but the lack of a servant, or need a family line of tools.

My male friends who have been unable to believe that the original toilet needs cleaning. Later, squatting on the toilet to wash the toilet, only to find a woman once so important to him!

In fact, we have to learn in their lives, appreciation of others, which is equivalent to giving a kind of encouragement. When burberry sunglasses a man with a tone of appreciation to say to you: Youre so charming! I think most women will be elated, people need to be appreciated, especially married women, should appreciate her realtime, her life is full of selfconfidence and happiness, so far fewer complaints and chatter hundred. Vision to encourage a man is appreciated, so as to arouse a mans struggle a sense of responsibility. Seen a lot of unhappy marriages, because of mutual contempt and despise that led to eventually become a stranger. A happy marriage is a science, an appreciation of learning, and you and I are often destroyed by the trivia of life, no longer care about each others feelings, the use of violence or disregard to abuse each other, further and further away until marriage.

A lot of unhappy marriage from a yoke, shrouded shackles be a false responsibility, mutual disregard and neglect lead to a certain degree of fatigued. When you have forgotten your appreciation, when the other person never fails to pique your interest, then, the signal of an unhappy marriage began, the primary means to restore this situation is to learn to discover each others glittering, and then with an appreciation of the vision to view of marriage, so as to reignite the passion. Appreciation is an attitude, the attitude towards a better life aspire to, when you are also trying to improve themselves, while others burberry shoes outlet treat you to an appreciation of the attitude, how will amount to less than inner satisfaction and happiness sense.

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